Friday 3 February 2012

Golden Rule Of Online Chinese Dating: Guard thy Password With Thy Life

Online dating especially with Chinese women comes as a breath of fresh air to those who have had to deal with dominating and garrulous girlfriends or wives in the past. Polite and charming, most ladies from land of red dragon are act with dignity and graciousness and if they ever happen to offend you unwittingly they apologize so profusely that you start feeling bad for taking offense in the first place. However, no matter how innocent and harmless a woman may seem to you, never let her persuade you to disclose your password. In fact, I would go to the extent to say that password to your account on the Chinese dating site should not be shared with anyone, not even your best buddy.

A friend of mine, whom I will refer only as J here, recently had a harrowing experience. J is a pleasant enough guy who was dating this really pretty and charming Chinese girl online. They would spend hours chatting with each other every day and when they were not chatting, they were talking on the phone. J was still relatively new to Chinese dating and still mesmerized by the fact the numerous exotically beautiful and attractive girls were interested in chatting with him. So while he was almost sure that his Chinese girlfriend is the woman he wanted to spend his life with, he could not stop himself from responding to the other women.

So when his girlfriend asked him that they should date each other exclusively and gave him her password as a token of trust, he returned the favor without quite realizing what he was doing. That was just the beginning of nightmare. Soon she was reading his chats with other women and worse still, she was mixing up the date when they were supposed to stop dating others. She called him up and gave him earful without giving him a chance to explain himself. The sweet and charming girl he knew was gone. She changed his password making it impossible for him to operate his account and sent offensive messages and mails to all the women friends on his list.

Only after he contacted the webmaster and explained the situation to him, was he able to stop the madness. His loss in terms of goodwill amongst other members was great but he learnt his lesson. And so should you.

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