Let’s face the fact, that picking a girl for a date on an online dating site is as much fraught with hazard as picking a girl from a bar, if not more. But dating is, after all, dating and spending time on a Chinese dating site with lovely and pleasant girls is much fun. For safe and fun filled online dating, keep the below mentioned things in mind:
- Unless you are aware about your wants and expectations from a relationship, it would take you a long time along with much heartbreak to find what you are looking for. Be honest with yourself and save yourself as well as others precious time and trouble.
- By being discreet on social networking or dating site, you look after your own interests but discretion and lying are two different things. Be honest when you filling out profile info and posting photographs.
- While you may be entirely honest in your dealings, there are others who are not. People you must watch out on a Chinese dating site are those who seem too good to be true. It is best to trust your instincts and not overlook anything that looks suspicious and out of place.
- One good thing about meeting and relating online is that you can get to know each other gradually and later choose whether to pursue the relationship in the offline world or not. Don’t feel obligated to meet anyone, regardless of your level of online intimacy, unless you are sure about it.
- A phone call can tell a lot about a person so before you decide to meet talk to your online date on phone. Call from a public phone and give your phone number only when you feel completely comfortable.
- Never dismiss odd behavior without giving it due consideration. Watch out for sudden flared up anger, intense frustration or attempts to pressure or control you as much as to a passive-aggressive manner, demeaning or disrespectful comments.
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