Wednesday 23 May 2012

Why Spreading Yourself Thin For Chinese Dating Won’t Work for You



Once you manage to put an interesting profile info and attractive profile picture together, having too many women to correspond would be your next headache. I know guys, you must be wondering what man won’t like being chased by beautiful exotic women. Simply because being chased by too many won’t get you the results you want. Let’s say, you are approached by about 55-70 women after they saw your profile on a Chinese dating site. Now if you were to start answering all of them then you won’t be doing anything else for a long time. Moreover, you will forget what who is who and what you told them about you.
While being polite and answering ladies who took the trouble to write you is a good thing, it is certainly not something that I would recommend you. I suggest, you take a good look at their profile info and picture and then pick 3 or 4 that you like more than others and pursue them. If things don’t work out the way you had anticipated, you can go back, pick others and start all over again. Alternatively, you can approach new ladies signing up with Chinese dating site for a date and friendship. With any luck, they will respond in a positive manner.
Now, I understand how guys feel around a beautiful woman but when dating online, personal safety comes before everything else. Just because a pretty woman is more forthcoming and friendly there is no need for you to give out your personal details like telephone number, address and most of all your financial details. If she likes you, she will be back for more dates anyway. Only a scammer will want your personal details in a hurry so that he/she can put together their scam. Accept the fact that online dating is a time consuming and best results can only be achieved through baby steps.

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